Own Your Media Club grew out of a few years of chasing one feeling: the good one you get with friends around a table, phones forgotten. Here's how we got here.
2023It started with cocktails and mocktails. A few friends and I began mixing drinks, writing menus and hosting nights together. The drinks were good, but the real draw was the room: people talking, laughing and staying late.
ThenNext came the writing. Letters from BC Gordon on Substack, often drafted on a manual typewriter, about friendship, family and the quiet costs of living on our screens.
2026The dumb experiment
For 60 days I swapped my iPhone for a flip phone from dumb.co and wrote about it every week. The smartphone still lives in a yellow box most of the day. I got my evenings back, and I noticed how much of my music, movies and books I was renting instead of owning.
NowOwn Your Media Club
So I started building small tools that keep my media mine, like myStereo and myShelf, and keeping a list of local places worth putting the phone down for. Records, typewriters, paper books and face-to-face conversation. That’s the club.